They have all fallen away; together they have become corrupt; there is none who does good, not even one.Psalm 53:5
If you are standing for your marriage or have experienced the Lord miraculously restore the relationship between you and your spouse, there may come a point when you become comfortable or lax in your walk with Jesus. If you are like me, the desire to possess an intimate and close fellowship with the Savior can be a struggle. Far too often, the very things that should rightfully occupy the inner parts of our hearts take a back seat to what is fleshly, temporal and fleeting.
Recently, I’ve become aware of areas in my own life where complacency has taken hold. What has become clear and glaringly apparent is the fact that this attitude usually is a result of our unwillingness to be proactive and intentional in our pursuit of righteousness on a routine basis. Unfortunately, deviation from deliberate efforts to fully submit to God have the potential to put us in situations where our hearts can become vulnerable to the attacks from the enemy. It’s a dangerous place to be and an environment we as believers should always seek to avoid.
So vitally important to understand is that none of us are above reproach and what exists in our hearts will never come close to being good. In fact, what is there is described as deceptive and wicked by the Word of God. This should serve as a sobering reminder should any think he or she is beyond scrutiny and incapable of turning astray. I’m reminded of the story of Peter and the circumstances that led to his denying Christ three times. Surely if any person had a right relationship with the Lord it would be Peter, right? One can easily assume this, but if we view this apostle from a lens focused squarely on his human imperfections and sin nature, it becomes easier to understand how this event likely occurred.
Before Peter’s outward denying of the Savior, there were already failures at the heart level. In other words, the spiritual battle Peter was in had already been lost long before the infamous cursing came from his lips. As Scripture tells us, it is out of the abundance of the heart, that our mouths speak. This is also true of what we do with our hands, think in our head, or look upon with our eyes. It all begins in the heart. It is due to this corruption that the sinful and ungodly actions of the flesh are born out and made manifest.
Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour.1 Peter 5:8
At this point, you may be thinking to yourself that if someone like Peter who was so close to Christ fell so easily, what hope do we have? The answer is simple. The hope you have is not in yourself or in your ability to fight the enemy on your own. Your hope is in Jesus. He is the one able to strengthen and equip you. His Word is what prepares you for battle and provides you the armor to withstand the attacks of the evil one. We must rely on Him completely and not leave ourselves vulnerable by assuming anything concerning the virtue and integrity we foolishly think we possess.
There were times in my stand when I did feel extremely confident about my walk with the Lord and the work He had done in my life. But even in those moments, there was danger lurking at every corner seeking to lead me astray. It was only by the grace of God and the empowering of the Holy Spirit that potentially harmful situations and opportunities were kept at bay.
The challenge we all face is clear. A relentless enemy is on the attack. He will use anyone and anything to lead us down the path of darkness. Be constantly aware of these dangerous snares and entrapments. Don’t let your vulnerabilities during these valley experiences allow the evil one to gain access to the doors of your heart. Purpose now to cling to the cross. May we all remain broken before Jesus and understand the importance of our full and complete submission to Him. It is only through Christ that victory will be found.
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Rosina and I have been separated for 4 months today – and today was our 2 1/2 year anniversary. I miss her terribly, yet I trust in God’s restoration in His time. This past week I was praying and praising Him for this beautiful new relationship I have with Him, and that it wouldn’t have happened without this separation. So I rejoice in it, amen! And it became clear to me that this intimacy I have with Him, the study and the reading and the prayer, and all of it – once Rosina and I are reunited, I am going to have to continue to be steadfast in my pursuit of our Father, always placing Him first, reserving this personal time so that I remain the man He is molding, that I continue to grow. Christ first in all things, otherwise I won’t be the man or husband He desires. I thank Him for bringing it to my heart, and for you sharing this Tom, because it confirms it. Peace to you brother.
Thank you for this message. I have been standing for my marriage restoration for 10 years. Sometimes I am tempted to think that God is not helping me but He has been changing me. When you wrote, “It was only by the grace of God and the empowering of the Holy Spirit that potentially harmful situations and opportunities were kept at bay” it really spoke to me. It is easy to forget the things that God is doing just because I cannot see what is happening on the other side of the mountain. Thank you for letting me see how God is protecting me and drawing me closer to Him. Thank you for allowing God to use you to bless His people.